Break-Up Advice for All

So, it's happened again. Your significant other called you up and said "it's not you it's me" or "I need space" or "I think we should see other people." Ouch! You never saw it coming. And to think, just yesterday you were at the coffee shop sipping lattés and chatting about the weekend coming up.

So you're at home, alone, freshly broken up...now what do you do?

According to advice columnist Andre Cross, the first thing to remember is: "Time heals everything; it's normal to have low self-esteem when someone you love leaves you. But remember, you're still the same person that she [or he] once fell in love with."

This is very true. How can one phone call change who you are. They were attracted to you for a reason and you still have it! As hard as it may be to realize at this time. Here are a few rules that have been compiled to help you through the next break up blues you go through:

1) Make sure the other person knows how you feel.

2) Don't drag out a relationship, it only makes it worse.

3) Don't be too hard on yourself. You are still a great person!

4) Get out. Staying in and sulking will not make it any easier.

5) Realize: They're going through the exact same thing.

6) Time Heals everything!

This should you deal with a break-up in the future.